Chris Bennetts

My name is Chris Bennetts and I have created this site to assist people who have the experience of being cyber stalked.

As a victim I do understand the impact it can have on peoples lives but coming from a technical background I am also in a better position than most to provide some more practical advise on how to deal with online attacks including how to report abuse and how to get their material of the first page of search engines.

Cyber Stalking – Sick Minds Online

ARE YOU A VICTIM OF A CYBER STALKER?

Welcome to my site Helping Victims Of Cyber Stalkers.   I have first hand experience with Cyber Stalkers having been a victim of one for five years. You can find my story on this website but here I want to provide general information on the different types of cyber stalkers and what they have in common.

So where did all these cyber stalkers come from and
what did they do before there was an Internet?

The Internet has opened up opportunities to connect to people all around the world that was not possible just a few decades ago. Social networks enable people to find others with similar interests and share information on a scale never imagined. This new found freedom has come at a price for many unsuspecting internet users as sociopaths, sexual predators and those with a range of personality disorders have also discovered this is a great medium to express their anti-social behavior and find an unlimited source of new victims.

Before the internet they had fewer opportunities to do so, being limited to those in their geographical reach or to sending letters or making harassing phone calls. This is exactly what many did but this type of stalking activity did not get much publicity. Some high profile stalking cases might have appeared in the press from time to time but most were confined to those directly involved and the public was not generally aware of the problem.

The arrival of the internet changed this. What makes the internet so attractive for many stalkers is that it has no geographical limits, they can find victims anywhere in the world. They also have an audience for their activities which provides them with the feedback so many of them crave. Most thrive on the attention they get and the affect their harassment has on the lives of their victims. The more upset they can make their victims the more enjoyable it is to them.

The internet also provides a degree of anonymity. Most cyber stalkers are also cyber-cowards, hiding behind computer screens sending out abuse to people that they would not have the courage to face in person. In real life most feel powerless and have extremely low self esteem. They are often the type of person most people would ignore socially and no one takes seriously. Many are loners with few friends, unable to maintain normal relationships. Others find submissive partners that they can control. In pretty well every measurable aspect of their lives, cyber stalkers are failures who create an online fantasy world to escape their sad, pathetic reality.

One Response to Cyber Stalking – Sick Minds Online

  • Matt Wilkie says:

    Hi Chris,
    Good article and I believe a lot of these cyber stalkers have been hiding in the shadows. Now the internet gives them the ability to harass and attack with little fear of reprisals. Even if their intentions originally were genuine it can easily lead to an obsession where they have suddenly felt power they have never had in their life before. They are being noticed! people are listening! Normally the people they attack but at least an audience someone they can communicate with and feel they have a hold over them. Its often people who have suffered bullying or some other form of harassment that take this form of attack online.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>

Cyber Bullying &
Stalking Guide

Cyber Bullying and Stalking Guide

My new book has just been launched.
January 2013.

Cyber Stalking
Victim Support
Services

Tracking Down A Cyber Stalker - We help you find and identify your cyber stalker and discover the reasons why the harassment is happening

Collecting Evidence Against A Cyber Stalker - We help you collect evidence against your cyber stalking linking harassment and fake accounts back to them.

Online Reputation Report – We will conduct extensive searches on Search Engines and Social Networks for anything negative written about you so that this material can be dealt with in the most appropriate way.

Getting Malicious Material Removed - We will help you get all malicious material removed permanently from websites, blogs, posts or any place on the internet where the information appears

Reputation Repair - We use our system of social networks to reclaim your reputation and credibility while making negative material that can’t be removed virtually invisible.

Engaging The Cyber Stalker - Pursuing the cyber stalker on his own terms is sometimes a necessary option to permanently get rid of that person by exposing the cyber stalkers real personality and intensions